So says J. B. Phillips in Your God Is Too Small. He pours cold water on the idea of a limp-wristed, namby-pamby, milquetoast Jesus:
(“Mild”conjures up a) picture of someone who wouldn’t say “boo” to the proverbial goose; someone who would let sleeping dogs lie and avoid trouble wherever possible; someone of a placid temperament who is almost a stranger to the passions of red-blooded humanity. . . uninspired and uninspiring.
This word “mild” is apparently deliberately used to describe a man who did not hesitate to challenge and expose the hypocrisies of the religious people of His day: a man who had such “personality” that He walked unscathed through a murderous crowd; a man so far from being a nonentity that He was regarded by the authorities as a public danger; a man who could be moved to violent anger by shameless exploitation or by smug complacent orthodoxy; a man of such courage that He deliberately walked to what He knew meant death, despite the earnest pleas of well-meaning friends! Mild! What a word to use for a personality whose challenge and strange attractiveness nineteen centuries have by no means exhausted. Jesus Christ might well be called “meek,” in the sense of being selfless and humble and utterly devoted to what He considered right, whatever the personal cost; but “mild,” never!
Why does the idea of a mild Jesus pose a problem for us today? Phillips points out two problems. First, it suggests to us a Jesus who is all sweet sentimentality and who is devoid of real passion. To properly understand who He is and what He did, we must understand that He had the full range of human emotions. He was not on some sort of heavenly qualudes. An intelligent reading of the gospels will show the depth of His emotional experiences!
Second, since God is love, a view of Jesus as sweet and sentimental can hinder an understanding of the awesomeness of the love of God; and this misunderstanding of the nature of love robs us of our ability to truly love. Real love is always ready to speak the truth, even when it is uncomfortable. But the idea of this overly sentimental love causes us to hold our tongues when we ought to speak.
Phillips closes the chapter with this: “He was love in action, but He was not meek and mild.”